Monday, 4 June 2012

Among tweens and teens

No doubt the youth stage gives us our most valuable memories and the most awaited by children. This can be explained due to events, news and discoveries that take place during this stage of life. Many changes occur, be it internally or externally, which ultimately result in search of personality and defining characteristics. But so far it seems to be a teenage dream, as everything has its dark side, the youth also ends up being the most difficult phase.

The famous transitions... Many questions arise, many changes will occur. First love, new discoveries, beginning a new life of parties and nightclubs, a constant desire to contradict what others think, hard times at school, hard times at home, but wonderful memories at the end... After all, who hasn't been through it or will go through the same situation?

Tweens and teens can be described as unstable and variable. They may change from  water into wine at any time. Today many of these changes may be related to the pressure exerted on the young audience by the media. With that, more and more  teenagers have problems with disorder issues and problems with personalities.

The fact that the media now treats the subject of "bullying" so often by judging it, seems to be contradictory, because this bullying is partially caused by the media. On front covers of magazines and in adverts, you can always observe models with the same physique type, which ultimately affects teenagers psychologically, because they are unstable and highly influenced. As a result, teenagers believe they are different and wrong, which ends up causing serious problems. 

What is missing is help for adolescents with such problems of finding balance between reason and emotion. A little help can make a huge difference if it comes from the heart. Be it from a friend, a mother, a father or even a professional, they will want you to feel well at any cost. 

Obstacles will always appear, be it at adolescence or at any stage of life, and seem to be more frequent in adolescence. The solution to well-being is to keep good ideas in mind and don't be influenced by what is not worth it. Life is a climb, but the view is great, so until you reach the top, which is being an adult, you will have some huge problems to handle, but these problems will result into the best memories of your life. The teenage phase is the most wonderful adventurous stage of life, so while writing the story of your life, don't let others hold the pen, because only you know what is best for you and what makes you happy!


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