It is quite normal during life to have doubts and uncertainties, and different choices to be made. Even more normal is not to know what attitude to have through these ups and downs, overs and outs.
Personally, I can classify myself as undecided, variable, and bipolar. Depending on the context, time, place, on my mood, I can change from water into wine. Many times I make the wrong decisions, I talk too much, say what I shouldn't, and after, I think back, regret, and completely change my mind.
I believe that choices are placed in our lives, even if they are small, such as what clothes to wear, or big, as what career to go for. The story goes that as we grow up the difficulty of the decisions we have to make increases, but is not true. The truth is that we learn from the small and big mistakes and learn how to confront them and come to a decision with regards to our questions.
Do not judge someone "unusual" for being indecisive and variable. It is extremely normal to have doubts and often make mistakes, and by making mistakes, we learn. I've been up and down and over and out and it doesn't make me or you, if this is your case, a worse person, only a person who likes to try everything in order to decide what best matches your preferences.
I think your blog is amazing and interesting. The topics are awesome and the background is pretty. Where did you get it from?
ReplyDeleteI'm also Sherina's student and I'm a blogger too!!!
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Sofia
Thank you so much, Sofia! The background I got from google searching a lot on images of scrollwork.
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Marina
Dear Marina,
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I am Ms Sherina's friend and I hope you don't mind me commenting on your blog.
I am so impressed by your blog. Your words are wise and beyond your years!
I also believe that people, situation and choices are placed in our paths as opportunities for growth. And I also agree that we should never judge others, for any reason... we never really know where people are coming from, therefore we must always give them the benefit of the doubt.
I look forward to reading your other posts!
Maxine
Hi Maxine! Thank you very very much! It's good to see that people are liking it, so it motivates me to continue writing!
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Marina